my friend said he just wants some a**? what do you think?

Question

theres this guy, he was my driving instructor.he always stares at me and when i look up he just keeps on staring into my eyes. and he stares into my eyes when we talk and sometimes looks at my lips/his eyes move around my face-- i feel like telling him he's so visual because he is just looking everywhere on me. once when i was driving he just randomly hit my hand and i started to laugh nervously and he didn't say anything like sorry he just held his hand on top of mine for a while. we were also talking once and i said my name means pretty and he said it makes sense and it's certainly suitable. He also brags about his wealth growing up/shows off his phone as it's constantly beeping and ringing. one time he saw me with my brother and said so that must be your boyfriend about 15 minutes into the driving lesson in a jealous tone and sighed, then put down my brother's car [you wouldn't be caught dead driving that piece of sh** right]. he also asks me some personal questions like my interests/where i live, even how long it would take me to walk to his favorite restaurant in the town i live in. also asked me where i go to the beach. he said i was memorable too and he'd never ever forget my name, he could forget others but never mine. he teases me a lot too like making fun of where im from and he'll imitate me sometimes. when i was driving once i took my hands off the wheel and he asked me where my hands should be with a huge smile on his face.
he says my first and last name a lot instead of saying 'you'. we were talking about my room one day and he said your room would be quite interesting i imagine. he always wore hollister and i told him i hate hollister so he stopped wearing it and i asked him if he stopped wearing it cause i dont like it and he said yes and looked me in the eyes.

also, he told me he broke up with his girlfriend and then said hes got a new one now, then grinned. said it was cause he was from scotland, and i always ask him to wear his kilt and he seems really happy when i do this.
i know someone that had him as a driving instructor and passed her driving test, she said he didnt flirt with her at all.
asks me if im done school every session too
also opened the door for me even if hes on the passenger's side, passed me my purse when i was perfectly capable and called me his friend, and said we have a good time together.
barely talked about driving mostly about my personal life. [he is 30 i am 17 btw]
i dont see him anymore... i know a lot of my friends went to the same driving school and passed and are perfectly fine and don't care if they ever see him again, but i feel like i should.

also said he didnt add his students on facebook
said he thought my tights that had one leg blue and one green were "wild". often describes me as wild, and tries to sound like he knows about fashion -- ex: we saw guys wearing cut off shorts and he said i wouldnt be caught dead in those and neither would you
seemed like he was trying hard to get me to come back, ex telling me to reschedule the test and telling me to cancel it even 5 minutes before it
once he told me to do something with the car and i didn't quite hear what he told me so i looked back at him and he was looking down and then once he realized i wasn't doing it he snapped up and said oh in a surprised tone. He had sunglasses on but i think he might have been looking at my breasts. asked me if my purse was betsey johnson, then said see, i know my fashion.(i like fashion). tries to find things we have in common [both drive volkswagens, both bad at math, both went to the same high school, etc]




ALSO said he was gonna call me, i said if you get the answering machine just hang up because its embarrassing, he said what is it you singing, and i said no its just retarded, and he said he was gonna call me at 2 AM then. also seemed protective over me like he was going to drop me off at my grandmothers but my dad wasn't there so he started to drive me back to the driving school and i said "no just take me back to my grandmothers" and he said "but how will you get back to the driving school for your dad" and i said "i'll walk" and he said "it's too much running around."
he would say it's okay when i'd sigh, and sit with his legs closed tightly

he said "you must be 16 right, cause i asked someone how old most people were in drivers ed and they said 16" and waited for my response, and i said "i turned 17" and he said "this year?" and i said "yes" and he said he acts like he's 17, also said he knows a friend that was with a girl 20 years younger and he got her pregnant, and he left her. just wondering if this was small talk

in case you were confused, IT WAS A FRIEND OF HIS that got this girl pregnant, he was like 48 she was 28-- he was just telling me this

Answer 1

You are definitely to young to be hanging around with this guy! You are so young, just getting a start in the dating world , and i guy like this could talk u into any thing!! And then when he's done using u, he will break your heart! You probably want romance, love and friendship! He wants one thing, your hot, young body! He two won't have any thing in common mentally, because he's experienced with the world and your just learning ( no offense) . When i was your age, i was always infatuated with older guys, they are smooth talkers, very smooth! Find an older girl, or mother, sister type person to talk to about this, don't go hanging around him without confiding in someone, so that their is someone around that will look out for your best interest! Do you have a mother in your life, or a bigger sister? It sounds like you are flattered by his comments and like the idea that someone is looking out for you...like when he didn't want to drop you at your grandmother's, because your dad wasn't there. But did u ever think that maybe he since your dad wasn't there, he thought hah! i can keep her out longer! Someone this much older, who hits on younger girls, does it because he knows he can manipulate them! Women his age probably blow him off! And why would a guy call a girl at 2 a.m? That's not normal. If he really likes you, why doesn't he just ask you out? Because he's hoping something will happen while your in the car eventually. What kind of boyfriend would that be? If this should happen, all you will have is a guy that continues to pick you up in his car, make out with you, and drop you off at home! Nothing more than that!

Answer 2

Hold up.. 4 months?! You NEED to ask for a new instructor. That guy probably is trying to get some! With his age, he's desperate. I can see it would be embarrassing to tell your parents about all of this so just say "My driving instructor is holding me back. I really want a new one. He acts like he's all that and he's really rude to me sometimes. So can I please just get a new one?" That seems like something better to say! (because you know parents, they'll probably end up calling the cops for "perverted crap") lol, so if you wanna just cut to the chase, just ask your parents for a new instructor! or, you can try to tell him that... "Look, it's been really fun getting to know you and hanging out. But I need my license! Can we please get back to reality and do this like you would with anyone else?" and by the way, get your phone number changed. lol (I WOULD!!)

Answer 3

With him being older its understandable that he might just be trying to get some. But you got real cute moments with him that might seem like he was interested but because of age never came out and just said it. Its hard to say what people are thinking but you should just move along to someone closer to your age.

Answer 4

This has already been asked by you and others. See my answer at https://answersrip.com/question/index?qid=20101130124616AA5ikAA