Cried over first failed attempt?

Question

me and my boyfriend are trying to concieve and this was our first real time actually trying. We were so hopeful, excited, anxious and everything and then when I found out that was not, i just broke down. I dont know if im crazy or is it normal? Like has anyone else ever cried because there first attempt didnt go so well?

Answer 1

Not the first attempt but I've been there too. It can be very stressful but remember that you only have around a 20% chance of getting pregnant each month even if you have no infertility issues. Try not to stress too much and hang in there.



Good Luck!

Answer 2

When I first began trying, I actually wasn't too upset because I knew it could sometimes take awhile to get pregnant. It was when I had tried for 6 or 7 months that I was starting to get worried and began crying a lot! It is normal to get excited when you are trying and then feel that let down when Aunt Flow shows up. Don't worry, I am sure you will get pregnant soon and remember there is always next month! Good Luck and loads of sticky baby dust to you!

Answer 3

you may not want to hear this but I felt like crying the first time as well because I assumed it would be easy to get pregnant as my husband and I are both young and healthy. I got used to the negative hpts and for some time I started feeling like a positive would never happen... very frustrating! finally after 8 long months of charting and fussing over every little clue of ovualtion, etc. we got our BFP!



just know that it can take awhile! Even if your timing is perfect you still only have about a 25% chance of conceiving each month. Take your time, relax and enjoy this time! It will happen in good time.

Answer 4

Yes, I did. Even though you only have like a 20% chance of conceiving on your first try, you still hope for the best. This is completely normal, but don't get discouraged. Try OPK's on the next round to make sure you are BD'ing at just the right time. Keep your head up!



Tons of baby dust to you!

Answer 5

I know how you are feeling, but I cried over failed attempts for seven long years. Don't stress about it cuz stress can cause problems. When I conceived my son we weren't even trying there was no stress me and my fiance were just having fun. We are now ttc 2 and no luck yet. Good luck hun and tons of baby dust your way!!

Answer 6

I've not just cried over the first failed attempt....but for all the 17 failed attemps so far.

I will pray to God however that no one goes thro' what a few unlucky women like us have to go thro', difficulty getting pregnant.

I just wish and pray that you do get pregnant soon

Answer 7

If you are crying already get used to it, it can take a normal healthy couple up to a year to conceive. My husband and I have been trying for seven months now, and it doesn't get any easier to see that negative test.

Answer 8

'Yes, So don't cry and you are not crazy just keep ur head up and do like me keep trying

Answer 9

ya it can be a lil upsetting but sometimes it takes more then that one try sometimes it can take serveral months . it all depends on your body hun ..