Why Do I really want a baby?

Question

Im a 15 year old girl and I really want a baby. I don't know why though. I know it wont happen because my parents will kill me. But, it still doesn't change why I want a baby. I even know the consequences to being a teenage mom I just want to be one but than again I know that can't happen.

Answer 1

i went through this as well

im almost 14

i didnt realise i felt the way i did

most teens want children because they

feel unloved a child gives love unconditionally

thats what we want at this age

are hormones are going out ragious

and we act on them

well to be honest we should wait not because it would ruin our lives but because it would

make them for idfficult

hope whatever you decide best of luck

Answer 2

Really Want A Baby

Answer 3

Hi,



Everyone goes through a little faze... It is normal so dont stress to much !



When you think of getting pregnant you need to stop and think!!!!!!



Think of it like this,

-No licence,

-Im not an adult, So my parents would have medical say over my own child !

-I have no money

-I havent finished school no job

-How would i get money to set up for a baby and for the rest of my life

-My body isnt ready for a baby

-How would i be a single mum with a baby at 15 living at home ?





When i was 15 i loved the idea of babys and pregnancy !

But i was smart enough not to let it get the better of me.



I made myself a few goals

I had to finish uni, so i had a great job before i had a child and to be atleast 21 !

And im now working as a nurse, My partner is a truck driver, We have brought our first home

and we are now ttc..... Im 21.



So best thing you can do is smile but not act!



I know a few teen mothers what are great with there children but they all wish they had waited !!

Answer 4

I think lots of teenage girls feel the way you do. I know I sure did (I didn't have one though). I think it's because you are sort of in the in-between stage of being an adult and a kid. You are entering women hood and it is sort of a part of being a woman to dreaming about your future family and making plans for the future. But trust, me this will pass- if you need help wanting it to pass- if you know someone with a young child, simply ask them if you can "borrow" the kid for a day or two and it will really open your eyes to what motherhood is all about. Just don't act on it. while being a mom is a rewarding thing, it is the most difficult job in the world. It is natural to feel the way you do, you just need to try and control it until you are in a place in your life where you can provide the best chance possible for the baby. I think you know deep down inside how hard it would be to be a mother so young. But even then, you probably don't know the full extent of it. If you really need guidance, talk to your mom or another woman you trust about your feelings and they can tell you more what it takes to be a mom.

GL

Answer 5

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Why Do I really want a baby?

Im a 15 year old girl and I really want a baby. I don't know why though. I know it wont happen because my parents will kill me. But, it still doesn't change why I want a baby. I even know the consequences to being a teenage mom I just want to be one but than again I know that can't...

Answer 6

find someone who has a 1 yr old and watch the baby for a day or two after that im sure you will change your mind. trust me you dont really want or need a baby for a long time. i was a young mother myself and sometimes i look back and wonder what my life would have been like if i would have waited (of course had the same child but later in life). your young live your life and make the most of it then have a baby.. wait ten years dont rush....

Answer 7

because you haven't figured out what it is you really want in life.. I mean as far as a career, job.. what college to go to.. Maybe you saw a commercial for that stupid pregnancy pact tv show.. and you think it's cool... Grow up first.. it isn't easy raising a baby on your own.. what kinda of job will the baby's daddy have? Are your parents going to pay for everything? Will the baby have insurance when he/she gets sick? You have enough money to purchase diapers and food every week? Prolly a few questions you haven't thought through yet! I hope your not planning on getting on the system... !

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Answer 9

It's a hormone thing, at your age. Your body can, so it wants to.



But, at any age, always consider why you want a baby. Are you only thinking of the good bits, or when the child is very young, or are you considering all ages and eventualities? Remember, having a child means your life is forever going to have to take the back seat to the life of your kid.

Answer 10

It's not uncommon now for girls your age to feel like you do.



I mean you see TV shows and movies where teenagers are having babies and that's how the idea gets planted in your head. But just thinking about having a cute little baby who will love you no matter what sounds appealing.



Just don't do anything about it, and hopefully the feeling will pass.

Answer 11

You don't want a baby, all they are are bundles of poop, crying, and loosing sleep. Your only 15 go do something a 15 year old would do, worry about sex later your only young once.

Answer 12

Because you think they are cute and adorable for like a day and after that you will want to get rid of it. I know how you feel I used to feel that way so in order to get through this you should volunteer to watch your baby cousins or neighbors.

Answer 13

once you have your period, your body is basically ready to have one.... doesn't mean you should, but its ready. We have hormones in us that make us crave having a baby at times, usually during the time we are ovulating... just ignore the feelings until you are older... having a baby before you have really lived life is no fun.

Answer 14

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Answer 15

no, do not have a baby. wait until you're in your 20's.



and no, not all women have a maternal instinct, how insulting. I'm child-free by choice, because I have no desire.

Answer 16

Teen Mom, hmm...that reminds me, have you watched the show on MTV called, "TeenMom" where bunch of teens get pregnant and they don't know what to do with their life? You should watch it, it will kind of scare you a bit. And, you can get the info by googling (www.google.com) MTV for MTV.com



Then, search "TeenMom", after that you watch the show and see if you feel the same way.

Answer 17

its your maternal instinct, and it will pass and come back, until you actually get pregnant. If you want to be smart about it and avoid it until you are really ready, try birth control. It will mellow you down, and you wont think about it.

Answer 18

I think you should wait a bit.. financially you wouldnt be able to keep a child healthy. Besides you should finish school. your parents wont let it happen because you are too young.

Answer 19

all girls have maternal instincts, and they won't go away. just wait until you're in your twenties and can have a baby. for now, be a babysitter or something.

Answer 20

let me tell you this: if having a baby is the right thing to do u wouldnt like to have babies, beacuse ur not right

Answer 21

u may want to have a baby....

but i only say that......

take care of urself.......

Answer 22

It is your natural instinct calling. Good luck in this. Modern society is opposed to natural instincts.